28 January 2016

More Brackets and Dashes

Some weeks you feel like the best possible version of yourself, and others you put colorful-but-flavorless sprinkles on oatmeal and call it dinner.

This was one of the former.

Between the Santa Monica Pier, Universal Studios, a hike to the Hollywood Sign, a powerwalk to find the Beatles Stars and a Groundlings improv sketch comedy show, Alison and I won tourist bingo, short of an I <3 LA T-shirt. Even though I despise the banal phrase "only in L.A." I think it applies to chugging down chunks of undissolved-and-utterly-viscous bee pollen floating in a pseudo-holistic juice en route to a "yoga with ropes" lession taught by a male Russian ballet dancer who mocks the inherent weakness of femininity with condescending motivational phrases about pain being a "temporary inconvenience" and how none of us were ready to be a "circus du soleil associate."

Rounded out by cameo appearances from the ladies of the semi-annual supper club, an endless and effusive Persian progressive dinner, and a dance night worthy of Soul Train, it was atypically action-packed and left little time for self-loathing or remembering that I need to figure out how to do my taxes. [See also an epic Sunday funday of bicycling, drinks and dares along the beach with an as yet unnamed potential suitor.]

High enough on life and canyon dust [almost to the point of listening to some drippy folk song about dancing in the eye of hurricane], during the week I redoubled my efforts to expend the same amount of energy each day [and thus continue my reckless abandon of calorie counting] but it's far less charming, perhaps downright creepy, when you are an adult by yourself on the monkey bars at night.  After my abject failure to climb a rope at the beach [and subsequent non-kinky rope burn on the dorsum of my foot], the smallest resolution began to creep into my mind.  Nothing crazy like a back handspring [the main reason I quit ballet for gymnastics as a child/only ever successfully performing an aeriel cartwheel]. Or even a Dirty Dancing lift from the water. Just a simple pull up. A key component of the defunct Presidential Fit Test and source of embarrassment that I think with practice I may be able to finally achieve [ok all of it was embarrassing except for the sit-and-reach which I inexplicably excelled at due to my freakish ratio of arm to torso length]. Just one unassisted pull-up would be great.  Currently I can hang heavily and stiff-armed like an unripe banana.

I also resolved to dabble into nonfiction and actually learn some of the fifth-grade level questions I missed on the online Jeopardy qualifying test, but somehow found myself walking home piled high with another armful of fluffy short stories and probably-not-award-winning novels.  Even though I have worked to craft this semi-edgy surgeoness persona with a heavily black-is-always-the-new-black wadrobe, deep down I am still my sixth grade read-a-book-at-lunch-so-you-don't-have-to-admit-you-have-no-friends-to-sit-with loser self. But not in way that will help me win at trivia.

At least I've gotten over the other main fear of sixth grade - changing in the locker room. Yet another thing about being a doctor that I didn't count on: an almost daily public undressing in an awkwardly arranged small space with high cross-traffic and weird half-conversations from people who mistake me for other people while I have a shirt partly over my head. The shame I had as a teenager when everyone gawked over bras and who was or wasn't shaving their legs largely contributed to the ultra-dork status of staying in the marching band all four years of high school [despite lack of musical prowess and utter hatred of the sound of the clarinet], because it kept me out of gym class. [Thank you Texas for considering standing still in the heat of summer on black asphalt to be an athletic event.] Now, it's almost no big deal to be struggling to not twist an ankle while balancing on one shoe and juggling the contents of various scrub pockets, half-to-completely-exposed, and have multiple strangers eye me with the "you don't belong on this floor" look while one of two doors opens to outside onlookers. Hashtag adulting.

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